The graduation party is now a dual party. Do we take a going away gift for the daughter? If yes, what is an appropriate gift and how much should we spend? We are already giving $100 to the graduate.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I will be throwing myself a 60th birthday party next year. The only gift I want is the presence of the family and friends I invite to the party. I intend to include “No gifts ...

The graduation party is now a dual party. Do we take a going away gift for the daughter? If yes, what is an appropriate gift and how much should we spend? We are already giving $100 to the graduate.